My bff..Help!!!!! - Letter

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There's this girl I don't like in a few of my classes.. she's like ughh. She talks behind my back and says stuff to make other people hate me!!! She has also taken my best friend. I usually ignore her, and walk away and go with my other friend..But now she moved so I'll be all alone. What do I do?..

I think you should keep ignoring her, pretend like you are not bothered. If she keeps on saying stuff, you should tell an adult and get a No-Contact Contract or something. :)

Oh wow Deja vu for me.... this happened last year... I thought ths girl was my best friend, but she just went and talked behind my back and stole my other best friend. What I did was I ignored her and all her little comments, if she didnt stop, I would go home and tell my mom. Finally, I made some new best friends and completely ignored the fact that she was around me. It helped alot and I hope it helps You :)
Nice idea btw Kayz I love the no-contact contract

Hey there!

Well there's a girl like her in my class too.All i think you should to do is ignore her.Ignore to everything she does,don't talk to people you can't trust.You can try telling your BFF [not in a public place] that you din't do anything and that girl is lieing.Your BFF might trust you more than the girl and be friends with you again.
But if you don't mind losing your BFF,then I think you should make new friends and move on.And now that she isn't near you I think that she won't disturb you like this.I hope this helped.

All the best
Liadeon

Oh, that's happened to me too! I think you should ignore the nasty girl and get on with your life. If you're that desperate, why don't you try and make another friend and if the nasty girl keeps bothering you, you should tell a trusted adult like your parents or a teacher and see what they can do. :)

Whello :),
Hunny, just keep ignoring her.
I know how you feel.. i used to have the SAME problem when i was in the 5th grade
Just keep ignoring her, if she keeps getting on your nerves or talking behind you just tell her to stop Or tell a adult that she keeps bothering you.
Good luck
-Mariana

I agree with Admin Kayla, It is best to tell in adult if she keeps saying things about you or make a no-contact contract :)

Don't think your alone because there are two girls in my class who are one of my bff's and they really don't like each other and they fight all the time!

But what we did is that we just made them go apart in different places so they don't fight and me and my other bff's do need to hear it!

You should ignore what that girl says about you and tell your parents and teachers!


Hope this Helped!!

Tell a teacher or an adult. =) And yeah just ignore her.

Ignore the girl.Act as if your not botherd about what she is doing.Tell your mum dad or any other family member.Dont let this keep going on.If you dont ignore her she will keep doing it.

Best wishes

Zara

I think you should go and talk to the teacher about it.. or just tell the friend who moved on how you feel... I have the same problem.. It will work out soon :)

And, you should probably just go up to your BFF who moved on and just ask for to tak to you... If the mean girl says your friend can't talk with you cause she moved on.. Then just ingore it and still take your BFF and have a heart talk with her... I have that problem LOADS and I just go up to my BFF and drag her with me and if the mean girl says something to me I jsut go whatever amger looser.. ANS she stomps off angry.. My bff doesn't have a problem talking to me... She shouldent have a problem talking to you eather :) So just, talk to her